Categories: Women & Men
You probably believe that you know everything about what women want, but are you sure that these are not some of the commonly believed myths? You think that women want you to be a super macho, dedicate to her some romantic poetry, and break with all your female friends, but guess all is myth, myth and myth.
Below are presented some things that women REALLY don’t want in a partner or relationship.
Myth № 1 Women want to talk
It is a much known fact that women like to talk. According to a survey a woman uses 20,000 words a day compared to a man’s 7,000. Thus you may think that women want to engage you into hour-long conversations, but the truth is that they just want you to LISTEN to them. It is much more important to her that you hear her instead of muttering back indifferent remarks.
So, instead of rebelling about how you don’t like to chat about your day, sit comfortable and open your ears.
Myth № 2 Women want super macho men
When happens that you and your girlfriend are at club and some guy hits on her, you could think that she wants you to stand up and punch the offender. But in fact it just makes you look crazy and her feel embarrassed. Of course women want courageous men but they are not impressed by a macho men scuffle.
Myth № 3 Women want to hear what you feel about her
When women complain that they want a man who expresses his feelings, they are in fact hinting that they want a man who will talk about his thoughts and opinions. This makes her feel that she is the part of your life and helps her get to know you better. And it doesn’t mean that she expects from you romantic poetry and daily confession of your love.
Myth № 4 Women want you to break with all your female friends
Platonic friendships outside a relationship may be disturbing, but your woman is not bothered that you have female friends. She may even like it, because it shows her that you are sober-minded man who understands women and know how to treat them.
Myth № 5 Women want to be treated equally
If you start treating your woman like she can fix some broken devices or buy herself flowers then you are in big troubles. Even if your woman is a true feminist, it doesn’t mean that you should forget about your gentlemanly ways. What women imply when they ask for equal treatment is that the want you to comprehend that they may also do something on their own and they don’t need a man in that time. They suppose you know this. But they Do want to be looked after and treated with nobleness as it makes them feel special and loved. The just don’t want to tell you about this.