Categories: Women & Men
If you feel that everything is going wrong in your life and your relationship is not anymore so stable, you can’t get on well with your partner then may be it is better to take a break up. Taking a break doesn’t signifies that you do not love each other or that you will can’t solve your problem within your relationship. A break is something typical for people that are dating, live together or are already married. Very often a break may bring into your relationship something new and sophisticated; you even will feel how much your attitude toward your problem has changed. Even the communication between you and your partner will become better. In case you are dissatisfied with your relationship you should think about some things before breaking up.
First of all you should understand for yourself why you have these problems and misunderstandings in relationship with your partner. Write down a list of characteristics you love about your partner. Try to remember what attracted you to him for the first time. Was it because you had common interests or he was that person you needed at that time? Everyone falls in love for different reasons it is something spontaneous that can’t be foreseen. Then make another list putting down those characteristics of your partner that have been bothering you. Are there in your list such points as excessive alcohol use or violent behavior? As you finish your list look through it carefully and think about your life goals and plans. Does your present relationship fits into this plan. Think maybe these problems in your relationship have nothing to do with the relationship itself. Maybe you are having some financial problems or some dramatic moments happened in your life. Very often people break up because external sources negatively effect on their relationship. Comprehend what is going in your life and try to divide the external factors from your relationship. After you have made all this, sit down with your partner at talk together about you relationship.
Be honest with your partner about your feelings and ideas, as this is the best way to resolve relationship problems. Telling lies will not help you as it only will worsen the situation. Both of you should analyze the recent situation and understand where your relationship is going. You partner may be as unhappy as you, ask what he thinks. After all the two of you may decide to take a break. A break is a wise option that many couples may benefit from. Sometimes it is important for a couple to take a break in their relationship as it may help them understand what they really want.
During the break keep in touch with your partner, ask how his things are going, what you both want for the future. According to statistics the relationship of those couples that broke up became better and even stronger.
Sometimes it happens that we need a break up and this doesn’t mean that we do not love someone anymore. A break in relationship is not the end; sometimes it signifies the beginning of something new and long-lasting. This brake can even make us realize how much we love our partner.