X marks the spot
Enjoy an orgasm with extra ohh – simply follow these tips for hitting the G-spot every time
1. Toilet break
Because the G-spot is close to the bladder, stimulating it can make you feel like you need to pee. If you’ve already relieved yourself, you’ll spend less time worrying about wetting the bed and more time enjoying new sensations, so always empty your bladder first.
2. Lose sight of targets
Performance anxiety doesn’t only affect men. Women on a G-spot hunt can become overly goal-oriented, hoping to achieve anything from multiple orgasms to spiritual enlightenment – but setting targets really can take the fun out of sex. Instead, think of sexual exploration as a way of spending more time relaxing with your body; breath slowly and deeply, and enjoy each stroke as you would a massage, rather than focusing on orgasm alone.
3. A swell tip
Before commencing the quest for G-spot ecstasy, get turned on: watch a porn film, read an erotic bonkbuster, get up close and personal with a whirlpool water jet – whatever it takes. As you become aroused, your G-spot will engorge with blood, making it swell, which in turn makes it far easier to locate.
4. Location, location, location
Once aroused, you will find the elusive G a few inches up inside the front vaginal wall – that’s the side closest to your stomach. It feels a little like a peach stone (rounded and rippled). Expect fireworks the first time you touch it, and you risk disappointment. Instead, commit some time to experimenting with different pressures and techniques until you find the moves that make you melt.
5. The cup floweth
Cup your vulva with your palm, allowing the warmth of your hand to penetrate your clitoris. Next, extend your middle finger and slowly insert it inside your vagina, then hook it, flicking the tip back and forth over your G-spot. Next try circling your G-spot, increasing pressure as you go, and finally try tapping it firmly. What feels best to you?
6. Squat thrusts
You don’t just have to lie down and take it. Some women report that remaining upright, bouncing on their heels while in a squatting position, with their fingers or a toy inside of them working their G-spot, works wonders for hitting the jackpot. In this position the weight of the body bears down onto the G-spot area, increasing the heavenly pressure G-spots love so much.
7. Twice as nice
When you’ve settled into a rhythm of stimulation for your G-spot, introduce secondary stimulation to your clitoris. You could stroke both oh-zones simultaneously, or you could use a bullet or finger vibe on your clitoris while you continue to stroke your G-spot. This will double your chances of having a G-spot orgasm.
8. Cowgirl tricks
Any position that pushes the head of the penis against your hidden pleasure zone will heighten G-thrills. Try Cowgirl: you straddle your man while he lies flat in his back; he enters you with his manhood tilted up towards the inside front wall of your vagina (stomach side). Rather than rising up and off his body with each stroke, slide up and down his body instead, so the head of his manhood slides over your G-spot with every thrust.
When getting jiggy on all fours, the G-spot can be overlooked. However, if you lie completely flat on your front, when he plunges into you, his penis will be directed down over your G-spot. Bonus tip: keeping your legs together while in this position will increase your vaginal grip, enhancing sensation for him.
10. Pillow talk
In Missionary position, the simple act of popping a pillow or two under your bottom will alter the angle at which his manhood enters you, ensuring he hits your magic spot without fail. Have him enter and aim for you tummy, and then tease your G-spot by rhythmically pushing into it and circling it with the head of his penis. Bonus tip: most G-spots prefer a firm touch.
11. Green gadgets
Using a sex toy is one of the easiest ways to tickle your G-spot. You can spot a G-toy by its unusual tip – it will be curved to hit that special moan zone. If you can’t afford to splash out on toys, try experimenting with a variety of curved courgettes, covered with condoms. Before you scream “ick!”, think of the planet – organic produce provides the most guilt-free eco-friendly orgasms a girl can have!
12. Orgasmic wave
The best G-spot stimulators also offer clitoral stimulation and vibrations, like the Grrl Toyz Remote Body Wave (£59.95, onjoy.com). Coat your toy in lubricant, and then guide it to your G-spot and experiment with different sensations. The Body Wave has six vibration patterns and a wireless infra-red controller that works at a distance of up to 20 feet – hand the control to your partner and let him surprise you!
13. Scratch that itch
Try using a curved G-spot toy like it’s a back scratcher. Imagine your G-spot is an itch you’ve been dying to scratch and work the toy over your raunchy ripples in fast, repetitive strokes – for some women, this move equals instant orgasm.
If you’re using a vibrating G-spot toy, try playing with it while its both switched on and then switched off to see whether you find dildos more delightful than their buzzing counterparts.
15. The bowling technique
Ask your man to place the pad of his thumb directly over your clitoris, and then insert the first two fingers from the same hand inside you, hooked upwards so his fingertips can ‘walk’ against your G-spot. The position of his hand should be similar to if he were holding a bowling ball. While his fingers ‘do the walking’, he should stroke his thumb across your clitoris in a windscreen-wiper motion – trust us, you’ll be wet enough!
16. Tantra g
Tantric lovers adopt specific breathing techniques and picture light to intensify their sexual pleasure. While playing with your G-spot, take deep breaths, imagining the air going all the way down to your genitals; place your free hand over your lower abdomen and picture the heat you feel as white light penetrating your G-spot, making it grow and tingle. Then imagine the white light bursting out of your G-spot and travelling throughout your body radiating an all-over G-low.
17. The g-plan work-out
While stimulating your G-spot, clench and release your pelvic floor muscles – feel your G-spot bobbing up and down like an Adam’s apple with each clench – and then hold the clench position for the count of five, before resuming rapid clenches. Building tension around the G-spot will help draw blood into the area making it more sensitive to touch.
18. May the g-force be with you
If at first you don’t orgasm through G-spot stimulation, try again. It can take several practice sessions before you manage to tip yourself over into a G-climax. Think back; for most women it took a little trial and error to operate the clitoris, but once you knew your triggers, the skills were at your fingertips forevermore.
19. Spread the love
The G-spot gets a lot of press, but that doesn’t mean it’s the only star on the sexual red carpet. Other areas worthy of attention include: everywhere! Yes, that’s right, any bit of the body from an armpit to an ear can be classed as an erogenous zone – you just need to work out how to play the parts.
20. Round two – ding dong!
Because the G-spot is most responsive when aroused, you may find you can have even more fun with it post-orgasm, so don’t stop after you’ve hit the high notes – the party’s only just begun.